What is a Ceilidh?

Origins of Ceilidh

Ceilidh Dancing
Ceilidh Dancing

First off Cèilidh is a Scottish Gaelic word. Céilí is the Irish word. The Scottish and Irish Gaelic are very similar and are often thought to be derived from the same language, but it is also widely agreed that there are enough differences in the 2 languages to be considered as separate entities.
Cèilidh is pronounced phonetically as ‘Kay-lay’ in Scotland.
It’s often spelled wrong by those unfamiliar with our culture. For example, Kaylee, Caleigh, Kayleigh, Kayley, Kalee are all very wrong but understandable misconceptions.
Originally it is thought the word comes from the old Irish Gaelic. Céle – meaning companion.
There is a lot of history surrounding the language and culture of ceilidh.

Many years ago, a Ceilidh or Céilí would be the word Scottish and Irish people would use for a social gathering and probably didn’t always involve social dancing. There was a time in Scotland when it was forbidden to play Scottish traditional music, to wear a kilt or tartan and it could be punished by death. So, a ceilidh might have been a code word that the ‘Authorities’ didn’t understand. A ceilidh may have been an evening of poetry and a nice chance for a good yarn and a few drams with family or friends. Without any television or a Netflix subscription the highlight of entertainment would be the ceilidh and the stories, legends told of the days of old. The Witches and the Fairies. The Princess and her wedding or Selkies from sea. What yer Grannie did before the Battle… Tales of bravery against the English, Wallace and Bruce or fights among the clans.

Modern Ceilidh

As the years have rolled on the word took new meaning in more recent times. Most would now recognise a ceilidh to be a social dance. Like a Barn Dance in other areas of the world.
A ceilidh now will almost always involve some musical performance and dancing. No experience is needed at a ceilidh as there is usually always a dance caller on hand to give you a quick lesson on each dance before it begins. A good caller will make this easy to understand and will be encouraging the newbies to take part.
The great thing about a ceilidh is that it is pretty timeless. Almost anyone can join in so it’s intergenerational entertainment. Which can be a great thing in our modern world where we are averse to mixing the generations. There are not many occasions when an 80-year-old, could be dancing alongside adults and young children in a large group, laughing and feeling like a young person again. There are no barriers to age in music so why should there be in dancing? Our modern media would have you believe it’s not possible, that there is a generational divide and only young good-looking people play music and dance but with ceilidh we do this all the time. There’s something magical about it. Almost some kind of invisible deep spiritual connection with our ancestors and our past.

‘Nobody ever forgets a great night at ceilidh. There’s nothing comes close to it.’

Charlie Abel, Accordionist with Iron Broo Ceilidh Band.

What should you wear to a ceilidh?

This will depend on the occasion of course. It it’s a Scottish Wedding Ceilidh in an upmarket hotel then you might want to hire a Kilt and the whole formal outfit. If it’s a less formal occasion, then you can wear anything that’s comfortable or if you still love the kilt you can wear a casual dressed down kilt. It’s not that important really. As long as you can get up and dance comfortably. If you are not wearing any underwear be warned. Some dances involve a bit of lift and sometimes ‘things’ can be displayed if you are not careful. Men and ladies… Pay attention. Sometimes there are things that cannot be unseen. In the days of modern technology this could be embarrassing. Ahem…

ceilidh set dancing
Dancing in sets

Modern Ceilidh Bands

Modern Ceilidh

These days ceilidhs are a very popular favourite for functions and events throughout Scotland and even around the world. Any Scottish wedding band is most likely going to be asked to play at least some ceilidh and some bands specialise in pure ceilidh for the whole evening. ( Like Iron Broo ) or offer a Disco option as well for special events. (like Iron Broo )
These days modern Ceilidh Bands will be asked to play for weddings, corporate events, anniversaries, civil partnerships, students, universities, 21st parties, Burns Nights and very often for larger charity events as a great fundraiser pull. Your Scottish wedding could never really be complete without a really good ceilidh band. Nowadays, people will really have ceilidhs for any excuse they can find. Hogmanay ceilidh night is the most popular of all dates in most good ceilidh band’s diaries.
The major difference now with modern Ceilidh bands will be that they are using amplification. Sound equipment has revolutionised possibilities for musicians to perform. Midi, keyboards, backing tracks, electronic drums, effects, microphones, electric fiddles or guitars, stomp boxes all these things would not have been possible to use without modern sound equipment.

The modern Ceilidh bands fall into 2 main categories I feel. Rock or Traditional Ceilidh.
Then there are also pop cover bands that will offer a token ceilidh set. I feel the best choice for the magic to happen is the traditional ceilidh band. What I mean by that is one that has a traditional style line up with the instruments being largely acoustic though using sound equipment and a few modern twists to enhance the sound. I believe that the traditional music is at its best when you can feel the emotion coming from the players. Each player has a style and when they practice for many years that style begins to shine through during their playing. The ceilidh dancing lends itself to this style and the repetition of the melodies and the ornamentation that flies off the fingers. There is an emphasis under the beat that is addictive when played at its best. Good old foot stomping tunes that will carry you off your feet and into the sky!
Accordions, Concertina, melodeon, Banjo’s Mandolins, Fiddles, Acoustic Guitars, a skilled ceilidh drummer, bodhran and bouzouki. A flute, Tin Whistle or pipes. I find that with some of the ceilidh rock bands you can often tend to lose some of the magic. Often, they have a heavy drum beat with a loud electric guitar and a screeching picked up fiddle. 10 minutes of listening to that and you’ll know what mean. Think Edinburgh tat shop. 😉
I might rub people the wrong way by saying that by that’s how I see it. Very few rock bands can pull off a good ceilidh as well as the more melody driven trad style. There is a lightness and fleeting tempo change to traditional music and I feel it gets overpowered and lost with a heavy sounding, rock style bravado. As a wise man once said…

‘It’s nae brave, It’s nae funny and it’s nae working.’

A. Wiseman.

The traditional music played in ceilidh is often most commonly played in Reel, Jig, Slip Jig, March, Hornpipe, Strathspey, Waltz and Polka time. The dances are usually in couples or in a set of number of couples. Each dance has different combinations and figures of movements and bands will often adapt a dance to suit the number of dancers taking part. It’s a flexible social event.

couples ceilidh dance
Couples Ceilidh Dancing

Most of the tunes used by a traditional ceilidh band would be from Scotland and Ireland or around the British Isles. English tunes and dances are also popular at a Ceilidh. As are European and world music tunes and dances. You never know what you might happen on the spur of the moment at a great ceilidh.

Folk music also goes very well mixed in with ceilidh as the line-up of the good ceilidh band lends itself also to the good line up of a folk band. After all it’s the same style of music just with words added as song. An extra melody line.

Scottish Country Dancing

Scottish Country dancing is similar to ceilidh but it’s not the same thing in practice. A Ceilidh is a very accessible open social dance. All the dances are pretty easy. No experience is needed, and anyone is welcome to join in and have a go as a caller will likely keep you right.
However, Scottish country dancing may appear the same to the uninitiated, but it is much more complex and is taken very seriously by those who are involved. You would probably be advised to take lessons at a class before attempting Scottish Country Dancing if you’ve never done it before. It’s probably what gave you nightmares at school.

Scottish Country Dancing
Scottish Country Dancing

Scottish Country Dancing classes are also pretty popular and are held around the world. The dances are easy enough to learn with a little practice and are a great way to keep active. The authority in Scotland for SCD would have to be the Royal Scottish Country Dance Society(RSCDS) based in Edinburgh. They run classes all though the country in different places and for all ages. They are a wealth of knowledge and have an absolute treasure chest of dances and tune books.

Many of the ceilidh dances came from Scottish Country Dancing and vice versa. There’s a whole lot of cross pollination between them but the way tunes are played in Scottish Country Dancing can be a sticking point for many SCD enthusiasts. They like the sets and tunes in a certain way and the right length of bars and the right tempo. They want particular tunes for a particular set and the emphasis played on the right beat and with minimal ornamentation and maximum lift. It’s very difficult for a musician to keep all of the dancers happy at the same time! 😉
You can almost sense the friendly but tense subtle friction between the ceilidh dancers and the SCD followers.
But for me as a musician I like it all the same. The tunes are all the same when they are on the paper until the player makes them sound. When they come from the musician they are the way the musician intended to play them. Without musicians and their music there’d be no more dancing.

Highland Dancing

Highland Dancing
Highland Dancing

Highland dancing is something very different from Ceilidh. It’s very physically demanding and is usually done by younger people over crossed swords or in groups. A competition format often seen at Highland games. Its origins lie in Scottish Gaelic folk dance but it has been formalised with influences from Ballet. Dancers wear special shoes called Ghillies, very similar to ballet shoes in appearance if you ask me. In most cases the Highland dancing is accompanied by a Piper. You can also get modern tracks played for group displays etc. Riverdance being a popular one.
Highland dancing is highly competitive in Scotland and is very technical. It needs a lot of practice to master the technique. Not to mention stamina, strength and a lot of discipline.

Scottish Sword Dancing
Scottish Sword dancing

I hear it said they danced on swords because of tradition. It was a martial training exercise for the clansmen. In the olden days soldiers would train by dancing round swords in order to strengthen their legs, ankles, co-ordination and balance. Competing against each other. It is often said in combat that you die from the feet up. Many of the highland tunes might also be used to dance at a Ceilidh or Scottish Country Dancing.

Step Dancing

Step dancing is great fun. Most famous in Ireland and to a lesser extent in Scotland though it is part of our tradition that has been in danger of getting wiped out by modern times. There is a great revival of step dancing going on in Scotland at the moment and you will often find step dancing classes at festivals and evening classes in most cities. Step dancing can be danced alone or as a group. Quite an exhilarating spectacle to see some people who really know how to do it properly. Sometimes you might be lucky enough to see someone go at it big style at a ceilidh or in a session in bar after a few drams to loosen them up.

Celtic Step Dancing in the USA
Celtic Step Dancing in the USA

Richard Minton
2 weeks ago
Had a great nights entertainment with Iron Broo, great ceilidh and then some floor fillers with the disco.
Response from the owner:Thanks Richard, we had a great time, hope to see you both again sometime
We had the honour of the Iron Broo ceilidh band perform at our wedding on 16th May, they were outstanding. Talented, organised and such a lovely bunch of guys
Response from the owner:Thanks Ellen, we really enjoyed playing for you. Such a lovely evening. And thanks for your kind hospitality. All the best 👍
Andrew Turner
11 months ago
We hired Iron Broo to play our ceilidh at a party to celebrate our recent marriage. The band were great, played a good variety of ceilidh tunes, called the dances and incorporated some impressive rhythmic vocals alongside playing. All the guest had a great time and enjoyed the ceilidh - thanks a lot!
Adam Barrie
1 year ago
We booked Iron Broo Ceilidh Band for our wedding in July 2025 and had a fantastic evening with them. The band were highly experienced and helped everyone get involved in the dancing. I would highly recommend them for any Ceilidh event.
Aylwin Pillai
1 year ago
Iron Broo played for our very first wedding at Kinclune House & Estate in our brand new wedding barn. Iron Broo were absolutely brilliant! The wedding party were up and dancing all night. Half of them were not Scottish, so Charlie did a great job of calling so that everyone could join in. I can't recommend Iron Broo highly enough if you're planning a wedding or special celebration!
Response from the owner:Thanks Aylwin, it was an honour to be your first band! We look forward to the next time, the new venue is amazing and the staff were so kind and attentive. Everyone was raving about the place. I'm sure you are going to be busy! All the best, Charlie
Jac Balden
2 years ago
Iron Broo recently played a ceilidh and disco for our wedding. Charlie was easy to deal and answered all our questions very quickly. Both the ceilidh and the disco were very well received with the guests of our wedding complementing the band and the music.
Amy Abel
2 years ago
We booked Iron Broo for our wedding at Mar Lodge in Braemar in July and they were fantastic! We had a very international group with about half the guests having travelled from New Zealand and Charlie was great at calling the dances and everyone had a a lot of fun, even the teenagers loved it! Thanks Iron Broo!
Response from the owner:Thanks Amy. Great fun playing for you and really nice to meet more of the Abel clan 👍
Jenna
3 years ago
We hired the Iron Broo duo for a charity ceilidh in February 2024 and they had everyone up on their feet until the very end! Thank you so much for a fantastic evening with your band - lots of classics and few special twists which made for a super fun evening. Would definitely recommend Iron Broo and hire again in the future!
Response from the owner:Thanks very much Jenna, it was great fun to play for you! All the best, Charlie
Keri Bailie
3 years ago
Iron Broo played at our wedding ceilidh, playing an array of instruments and gave instructions for each dance. Excellent band who were very flexible, cheerful and skilled. Highly recommended.
Response from the owner:Thanks Keri, much appreciated. We had a great time and enjoyed every minute, it was a pleasure to be a part of your special day.
alex bruce
3 years ago
The Iron Broo Duo threw us a fantastic party to celebrate our wedding in September. They happily accommodated some very last minute changes and executed a little surprise absolutely perfectly! They had a great sense of humour when some of the dances didn't go to plan (no fault of the band, entirely the fault of the beer!) and soon had us back on track. A brilliant band to hire if you want to have lots and lots of fun!
Peter Lancaster
3 years ago
From the moment we started to plan our wedding, we knew we wanted Iron Broo! With my wife having attended a few of their ceilidhs in the past, she told me that Iron Broo were the best ceilidh band she'd ever seen. Of course at first, with our wedding being my first ceilidh, I was a little bit nervous but I trusted her with this and I can say I am truly glad that I did. We couldn't have asked for anything more, the music and dancing was incredible (as per usual). Many of our guests had also never attended a ceilidh before, but they made the process of learning all the steps easy and everyone ended up having an amazing time (myself included. ) They were also extremely accommodating, able to play a requested song for our first dance with less than a weeks notice! Thank you so much Iron Broo! It was a pleasure to have you at our wedding and we will be sure to catch you at future events.
Response from the owner:Thanks Peter, it was a pleasure to play for your special day. We had a great time and everyone was wonderful. See you soon, Charlie 👍
Paul Mckee
3 years ago
They recently played at our wedding on 4th November 23 and were fantastic! A lot of guests had never been to a ceilidh before and they all really enjoyed it, especially the kids! We highly recommend Iron Broo!
Jenna Forrest
3 years ago
We hired the Iron Broo duo for a corporate ceilidh and they had everyone up on their feet until the very end! Thank you so much Charlie for performing for us - everyone had a fantastic evening with your band. Would definitely recommend Iron Broo and hire again in the future!
Response from the owner:Thanks Jenna, for a lovely review and we had great fun playing for you. Hope to see you again soon 👍
Helen Shiach
3 years ago
Iron Broo are well worth hiring for a special celebration. Great musicians who know how to get everyone involved. Caller ensured everyone knew what to do and they were happy to keep it fast & furious when no one knew how to waltz! If you are thinking of having a ceilidh I would highly recommend hiring them.
Response from the owner:Thanks Helen, much appreciated. We had a great time playing for you 😄 All the best 👍
Ian & Kathy Davy
3 years ago
Iron Broo played at our family and friends ceilidh in July. It was a two piece band - talented musicians who played in varying styles. Iron Broo chose the dances - a mix of traditional and new ceilidh dances. The explanations of the dances were very clear. Many of our guests commented on how good Iron Broo were. We would definitely recommend them.
Response from the owner:Thanks Ian & Kathy, we loved playing for you! It was a pleasure, your family and friends were great fun. All the best 🪗😊
Cathy Davidson
3 years ago
Iron Broo made a perfect day even better, they had everyone up dancing and mixing, from 3 year olds upwards. Guests who had never been to a ceilidh before had the best time and plenty of laughs trying to get the moves right. We highly recommend them to get the party started
Response from the owner:Thanks Cathy 👍 we had a great time. Much appreciated
Robin Johnson
3 years ago
Hired for ceilidh at Wedding, very accomodating and friendly. Played a requested tune for our first dance. Called/instructed on the dances which was very necessary and useful for people unfamiliar. Flexible on day when time for break and end called. Hired 4 players including a fiddle and sounded great! Had heard play before, and look forward to hearing again.
Response from the owner:Thanks Robin and Chen, it was ace fun playing for you both 👍 all the best ❤️
Chantal Gluting
4 years ago
They came all the way to Luxembourg to do a ceilidh with our Year 8 students and it was simply fantastic! They really motivated our students to take part in the dancing and the students ended up loving it! Thank you so much again! It was a great event!
David Márquez
4 years ago
They are very very good musicians who are masters of their style, but please understand they are not a versatile band and I am sure that is why they are the cream of the cream of ceilidh, however Charlie really takes advantage of his disco choice to make the night round. He adapted to my needs and I am happy to have decided to hire his services.
Response from the owner:Thanks David, it was great to play for you and I really enjoyed the Venezuelan music “crazy hour” 👍🎶
Juliet Buchan
4 years ago
The best Ceilidh band ever, our whole wedding was jumping from start to finish. My English relatives couldn't get enough of the dancing and were guided so well. Thoroughly recommend Charlie Abel and all of his brilliant 5 piece band.
Response from the owner:Thanks Juliet, it was a pleasure to be a part of your special day. It was great fun with excellent company. 🎶🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿👍🥰
Alistair Moore
4 years ago
Great set and game for a fantastic scout ceilidh
Annette McArthur
4 years ago
The band (two piece) were absolutely brilliant. They were all set up in good time and the music was fantastic. Charlie called the dances where needed - everyone had an absolute ball! Thanks a million.
Response from the owner:Thanks Annette, it was great fun. A super audience to play for. I hope we can play for you again sometime, any excuse for a Ceilidh 🎶👍🪗🎶🙏🏼
Amazing wedding band!! Played both a ceilidh set and disco afterparty. Listened to all my crazy plans and created an awesome evening for all my guests. Super value for money and really easy to communicate with.
Response from the owner:Thanks Kaitlyn! We had a great time, your guests were ace fun to play for! All the best, Charlie
Sarah Sophie
4 years ago
absolutely amazing!! the dances and the music of the duo was the best and we loved every minute of the time we had! They were also the nicest people ever
Response from the owner:Thanks 😊 so glad you enjoyed it, thanks for a lovely review 👍🤩
Chrissie Grant
4 years ago
We were lucky enough to have Iron Broo play for us at our wedding, where half the guests were Scottish and experienced ceilidh and reeling dancers and the other half were German and had no idea what was going on! The fact that Iron Broo got EVERYONE on the dance floor and partaking enthusiastically in both Scottish and German dances is a testament to their legendary music and DJ'ing! The evening simply wouldn't have been the same without them. Thank you so much Iron Broo for making our multi-national wedding such a cracking party!
Response from the owner:Thanks Chrissie, it was a pleasure to play for you, everybody was so keen to dance. The German Knoten disco was also such fun. Please let us know if we can help you again. We have played in Germany before, quite a few times for weddings. If you can find another excuse for a ceilidh.... :-)